There are dozens of laws which prohibit the sexual activities of consenting adults, from the Disorderly Houses acts of 1781 through to the law banning the downloading of extreme pornography of 2009. These are often contradictory and confusing and many rarely enforced. However, they instil fear in people so that they are afraid to do the things they fancy doing.
It is said that controlling people's sexuality is the best way to keep society in control by the government.
Many people are ignorant of the law. For example, many people think prostitution is illegal so they don't use the services of sex workers even when they badly need such services.
Disabled people are often banned from having any sexual activity because of the same kind of ignorance.
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A sexually free society is essential for wellbeing and mental health. Sexual repression is responsible for evil acts, Roman catholic priests abusing children is a good example.
Most people think that sex is the most important thing in their lives, so why should those who want to do it slightly differently to the norm be stigmatised and criminalised?
Repealing the laws which restrict the sexual activity of consenting adults would make us all feel safer and happier.
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The title of this Idea says "Consenting Adults".
The effect of repression in the catholic church is a good example.
There are several posts like this, you get to the point. The local council has powers to stop someone opening a night club or a chemical plant in the wrong place, so we don't actually need extra laws.
CRIMINALISE DEMAND!
Follow the lead of the Nordic countries.
If this law were to be passed, chances of which are zero, there would be no way for women to charge a man/men with having raped them because the legal view would be that both parties were adults and hence 'consenting.' The fact that women as a group do not have the same socio-economic power as men as a group has conveniently been overlooked. Likewise adult women and adult men who are disadvantaged due to physical, mental, pyschological disabilities would not be protected by this law. Unscrupulous male sexual predators would target this group because they would be able to claim 'but we were two adult individuals and the other party consented to my sexually exploiting them.
Unequal gendered power relations has been neatly ignored by this proposal.
We must retain the laws regarding criminalising certain sexual acts and this includes the current law criminalising men who attempt to purchase women and girls involved in prostitution, if they are being controlled/coerced/exploited by a male pimp(s).
Criminalise Male Demand - adopt the Swedish model.
I note your misandry here. It is OK for a woman to pay a young male then ?
No one said rape would be legal. "Consenting" is clearly there in the title, unless you cannot read or pref to ignore the fact. Rape by definintion is NOT consenting.
Those who want to criminalise truly consenting sex workers or their customers are simply NASTY VICIOUS people who are worse than any sex worker or none violent customer.
You are wanting to take away their dignity and their right to decide on what basis, by consenual agreement, they wish to engage in private activity, be it for money, or for love, and I despise you for it. You are NOT doing ANYONE any favours, or ANYONE any good.
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Hello Dr. Tuppy Owens, my kind regards to you.
For a scathing dissection of all that is wrong with the Swedish model do see this interview with an entirely voluntary, intelligent and articulate Swedish prostitute.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7D7nOh57-I8
It is absolutely clear that no one is forcing this lady to do anything she doesn't want. So the feminists are wrong yet again.
These people talk about dignity, but how dignified is it to be told you aren't capable of making your own decisions about what you want to do, and taking your business away by criminalising your customers ?
A logical next step would be the decriminalisation of the exchange of intimacy and sexuality (sex work), as for instance in New Zealand.
And incidentally for any who think that the disabled are being used, I suggest you listen to both the disabled, sex workers and the research on their relationships. You might also want to look at the practice in other countries where the relationship between sex workers and the disabled is sanctioned and financed by the State.
Finally, can we stop blaming feminists? Let's recall that a large number of self-identified feminists advocate for sex workers' rights and for decriminalisation.
"Finally, can we stop blaming feminists? "
For myself I refer only to the (obviously feminist) people, who have posted to every thread on this subject on this site demanding criminalisation of the clients and the so called "Swedish Model" without caring about any ramifications and side effects of that. Not all prostutes are victims and some know exactly what they are doing and what they are about.
But I am aware that not all feminists are prohibitionists and men haters, and I for one take your point and stand corrected!
What one has to be very careful about are the hegemonic claims that they represent all women and that this is somehow a feminist position. Denying other women a voice, and ignoring men and transgendered folk who sell sex is an exclusionary vision that is hard to reconcile with the fundamental principles of feminism. This is a myth.
To take this one step further - I have become involved in the current very lively debates in Sweden over both the legitimacy and effectiveness of their current laws. This is relatively unprecedented in Sweden, championed by the women here who advocate punishment for men who purchase sex and intimacy. What I have learned is that contrary to popular imagination there are many feminists in Sweden who are very disturbed by the law that criminalises purchase. They see it as of dubious constitutional and legal validity, based on morality not rationality and harmful to both women and Sweden.
This debate, two months before a general election, is partly due to the resignation of the Minister of Labour after allegations emerged that he was involved with a sex worker. In this light he became merely the latest authority figure involved, including judges and police, raising serious doubts about the working of this law.
See the group Feminists Against Censorship at http://www.fiawol.demon.co.uk/FAC/ for more details.
which was "linked" to the form of pornography. Can't say I really care myself, but everyone knows the famous Voltaire quote!
With the current laws how are you supposed to know whether or not you have transgressed the extreme porn laws? What exactly is or isn't extreme porn? Are the government going to provide approved and guaranteed legal porn sites that can browsed or magazines bought with impunity - that seems very unlikely.
The only fair action is to repeal these laws.
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